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Early alerts

See the patterns of humanity and so discern its direction. Provide early alerts. :- Doug.

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Quantum play?

Quantum play—how might we play with the grandchildren who will be elders 300 years from now? Is it really not possible? Really only one directional? :- Doug.

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Vulnerable kind of wise

We go into unknown territory. No, we don’t know everything. Knowing this makes us wise—a vulnerable kind of wise. :- Doug.

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Owe to the grandchildren

If you believe we owe something big to the grandchildren, come help us figure out how bigger. :- Doug.

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Leap across generations

Playfulness is the quantum leap across the generations. So we develop our playfulness for the benefit of the grandchildren. :- Doug.

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Tension

You are simultaneously complete and part of a larger whole leading to the grandchildren and beyond. Tension. :- Doug.

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Connective tissue

We are the connective tissue of the generations. Janus-faced, we are pulled to the way things need to be—together—and away to the safety of what we want to do—autonomy. We cannot escape nor resolve the tension. Only live it. :- … Continue reading

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Find out

How do playfulness and responsibility fit together? Help us find out. :- Doug.

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Broader

Take a broader, more playful, approach to the generations. :- Doug.

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This changes our lives

Not here to shop for bargains or “experiences,” we are confronted by a generation that wants something of us. This changes our lives. Maybe this change is unpleasant, but it is given us as responsibility and love. :- Doug.

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Both feet

There is something well beyond the middling years and we owe it to the grandchildren to jump in with both feet. :- Doug.

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Do the reverse

There are experiences where you can wear gloves and goggles and contraptions to simulate the losses of aging. Let’s do the reverse. :- Doug.

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Presumed wise

Let’s call every person of this generation “elder:” you are presumed wise until proven otherwise. :- Doug.

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Not normal

This is radical, and I think I need to stress the radical nature. Stop downplaying, making it seem easy and normal. Eldering is not normal. :- Doug.

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Not fully invented

Human has not yet been fully invented: we need us. :- Doug.

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Disorienters

Elders are community disorienters. :- Doug.

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Clean grandchildren

We can clean the minds and psyches of the grandchildren; we can be their scouts. :- Doug.

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