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Trajectories diverse

The trajectories of elders are diverse: some produce flowers, others hugs, others fireworks, some approach the heavens. :- Doug.

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Best dishes

Elders do not have the whole panorama: they do have and ought share their vistas. They do not prepare the whole feast: do make some of the best dishes. :- Doug.

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Leaven futures

Elders can leaven futures. :- Doug.

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Beginning elder task

I am a beginning elder; we have a task. :- Doug.

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Somes of eldering

The somes of elders: Some hug the grandchildren Many hear them out Some are activists Writers poets playmates Some unable to walk talk think show us how to receive love Or in their tiny rooms care for the cosmos provide … Continue reading

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Extending human reach

Eldering is unfolding meaning, extending human reach. :- Doug.

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Motif of a life

Elders search out the theme, motif of a life, of life, of society. :- Doug.

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For whom past 70?

For whom do we live past 70? :- Doug.

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Something going on

Aging: there’s something going on here, valuable for the grandchildren. :- Doug.

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Thinking is trouble

Let’s speak kindly about people for whom thinking is troublesome. :- Doug.

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Plumbing is our word

Less being and more about meaning making and finding—in a life examined and examined again, a society, a species too—examined for what is to be savored, what possibilities might be explored. Plumbing is our word, plumbing depths, sounding ever deeper, … Continue reading

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Batters youth

Old age batters and breaks only the powers of youth: it mounts its own new powers. :- Doug.

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We the families

We, the families, and the professionals who work outside the facilities, can start carrying life back through those doors. First we have to see life where staff see loss and less. Then we engage spontaneity and convivium. :- Doug.

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mouths demented

If babies can teach us, then so too demented elders. :- Doug.

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to be found

I like a story when it says what happened, does not say what it means, and clearly there is meaning to be found. :- Doug.

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At a picnic

At a picnic an old man is sitting in a lawn chair in shade provided by a building’s overhang. People in ones and twos are attracted to him: they come and go. I as well. His words, his thoughts pull … Continue reading

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Safety a launch pad

Safety ought be a launch pad for elders to be and fly, not an instrument of suffocation. :- Doug.

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