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Elder Caring Lawyer

Lessons you learned

What lessons have you learned in life? Big and little, about childhood, marriage, work, friendship, everyday things? :- Doug.

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Choosing level of pain medication

I would like to choose my own level of pain medication at dying time—and level of consciousness. :- Doug.

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Not any old kid

You’re thinking like you’re just any old kid. But you’re not. You’re you. You will develop as you develop, and you have some choice in the matter. Someone gets Alzheimer’s: probably not you. Someone’s health falls apart: need not be … Continue reading

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Serve larger

So yes, opening and deepening is central. Why would someone want to get there? To serve. So our eye is on something larger than ourselves: the generations; the planet; life; Spirit. :- Doug.

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Opening is to Spirit

So this idea of opening and deepening as the destination seems central. Is it? Conversation is central to me, bedrock, the field. Opening is to conversation, is to love, meeting, gathering, which is Spirit. Opening and deepening are terms for … Continue reading

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Broken tooth

Learning—living—is a ratchet—with a broken tooth. :- Doug.

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Opening and deepening for service

By asking important questions we start a process of opening and deepening…for service. Opening and deepening is the core; developing and seeing preparation. Service turns the whole to spiraling (love). :- Doug.

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Most profound work?

What is the most profound work you could do? :- Doug.

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Stopping to attend

Our meeting a moment a sacred gift a stopping to attend :- Doug.

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Smile young

A smile is young. :- Doug.

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ego goes

The ego goes. :- Doug.

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Stretch you?

Can we stretch you? :- Doug.

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More human than before

It’s not important you learn facts and figures. It is important you learn about yourself and about those you will benefit—how they want to be benefited and why it is meaningful to you. I want you to come out more … Continue reading

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Free for whom?

For whom your freedom? :- Doug.

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Life you choose

Now that you can live the life you choose, what do you choose? :- Doug.

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Claim your freedom?

Will you claim your freedom to be whom you came here to be? :- Doug.

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Free to be ourselves

Free to be ourselves Free to serve :- Doug.

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