Monthly Archives: March 2016

Family you do

Family is a thing you do, not are A choice and no choice :- Doug.

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Beyond surface what of death

Beyond surface what of death lasts? What are its boons? Think perhaps in the direction of poignancy…. :- Doug.

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To the near that gathers us

To the crux of matter From silly money-making From struggle each against all From grabbing grabbing and puffery To the near that gathers us and lasts lasts :- Doug.

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flashes suddenly between us

Daily we hear others’ voices But not that within The soul we share And are Till death flashes suddenly between us :- Doug.

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makes young

Conversation energizes Conversation makes young Conversation heals :- Doug.

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If you were the doctor?

What should be the default, if you were the doctor? :- Doug.

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I thought this story was about…

Is there more to learn, to unpack from the “She died peacefully the first time” story? What the daughter thought was important. What upset the husband too. The son with his paper as well. What do you hear from each … Continue reading

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What is the necessity of family and community

What is the necessity of family and community? Together is a necessity. Everyone’s voice must be heard. It is a respiration, from individual autonomy to gathering family and back. My wishes are important; so are everyone’s touched by my and … Continue reading

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In together

In together Vital life For family :- Doug.

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How to knot a tie

How to knot a tie or tie a knot you old man can teach me things I must know :- Doug.

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to raise a grandparent

It takes a village to raise a grandparent It takes a grandparent to raise a village Where have all the grandparents gone? :- Doug.

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Extra grandparents

These might turn out to be your extra grandparents. :- Doug.

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Found moments

Kairos: Found moments :- Doug.

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I bow to the wind

I bow to the wind I bow to the snow flakes I bow to critters great and small I bow to trees and wheat and stars I bow to grandparents I bow to grandchildren I bow to you I bow … Continue reading

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What kind of grandparent?

What kind of grandparent do you want to be? :- Doug.

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Favorite grandparent?

Who’s your favorite grandparent? :- Doug.

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No time at all

Kairos is no time, no time at all. You might say it is glow time, flow time, grow time, whoa time, bestow time. The apropos and ripe time to really know someone: know time. :- Doug.

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