Monthly Archives: December 2014

The nurses and CNAs

The nurses and CNAs are untapped resources of information, intelligence, and heart. They are the sensitive fingertips of the beast, able to detect, able to handle delicate operations: able to bring meaning and human touch to a mechanical checklist—if we … Continue reading

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Memory may be stored between the cells

Memory may be stored in the betweens of cells, the neighborhoods of the cells, the dendrites. There are more than a few connections made by each cell. If one cell dies, then do our memories run up a road ending … Continue reading

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People with people

People with people working on caring for one another we are. :- Doug.

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Let’s not steal from someone their death

Let’s not steal from someone their death. :- Doug.

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Mechanical deaths

People are dying mechanical deaths Ventilator, respirator, stomach tubes, O! Couldn’t we spare them our own human touch? :- Doug.

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People are dying

People are dying Far from gently Far from home We can make it better We can bring them home :- Doug.

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My dream a world conversing

My dream a world conversing And look! It’s working! Traffic flows on streets and highways Business and government intermix Flowing around each other Ambulances, police, fire All one people helping people, loving Conversing :- Doug.

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might not get better. But we can

People in nursing homes might not get better. But we can. We can treat them better. More importantly, they can live meaningfully. They can have light in their eyes. :- Doug.

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Life converses or it dies

Life converses or it dies. Give us a living being to care for and we flourish. :- Doug.

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Beyond reverence for life

Beyond reverence for life, engage life. Put life into conversation with itself. :- Doug.

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The three Ps of nursing homes

When people talk about a family member languishing in a nursing home, I will do the caring thing if I suggest they bring in parakeets and pets and plants. :- Doug.

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insert life

Let us insert life into the life-sucking nursing home regimen. :- Doug.

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Unregimenting the regimented

Unregimenting the regimented: this may be the soul work of making more caring our caring for our elders. We certainly have the technology to deliver individual care. Instead we send a platoon of sergeant-nurses through the ranks of dependent people … Continue reading

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If you want to grow happier, grow older

If you want to grow happier, grow older. Or at least have a near-life experience. :- Doug.

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Where the near-magic happens

This is where the near-magic happens. :- Doug.

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