Category Archives: Healing and Wholeness

On probate and lawyers:

On probate and lawyers: Accept the assistance of another human being who seeks to ease the way for you. Muzzle not the ox who tramples grain for you—pay him or her for helping. Do not expect something for nothing—of such … Continue reading

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Still living at your age?

We are still living at this age not because there is something for us to do; rather there is to love more opportunity given us. :- Doug.

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Surgeons confused by Living Wills: Study

Friends– Here is an article from the Annals of Surgery which headlines that Surgeons don’t discuss end of life care, especially when they are performing risky procedures: http://www.reuters.com/article/2011/12/16/us-directives-idUSTRE7BF0F720111216 (More details are available here: http://www.surgery.wisc.edu/research/publication/1341 ) But if you read more … Continue reading

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We can live until we die

We can live until we die giving receiving giving —a respiration :- Doug.

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Conversing about emergency medical decisions = loving

To have the conversation about emergency medical decisions is a loving thing to do—for them and for you. It makes their soul-searching easier when they are deciding for you, it allows them to know they are doing the last most … Continue reading

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Prognosis: if you knew….

Friends– “For an 85 year old patient, with a life expectancy of six years, a frank discussion of prognosis might result in “a significant reordering of health priorities,” said Alexander K. Smith. “For example, maintaining mobility, putting financial affairs in … Continue reading

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Hearing takes more effort than listening

Hearing takes more effort than listening Hearing draws a smaller circle —in us —of the other Hearing makes the other real to us & opens our heart Though this circle is smaller It serves the all by opening us out … Continue reading

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Is tells us Do

Is tells us Do Emergency! How do you make the best decisions for your loved one in a medical emergency? You need to converse. The conversation’s words do not give a recipe for what to do; we cannot cover every … Continue reading

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Your heart is ripped in two

Dead! Just like that! Your heart is ripped in two this wound never heals somehow from your dwindling blood comes a larger completeness of you compassion for others in varied pains from brokenness, wholeness :- Doug.

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It’s an emergency:

It’s an emergency: A nursing home administrator calls. The husband of a resident is demanding to take his wife home. The problem is that she needs 24-hour supervision because of her dementia. The problem is that the husband is soon … Continue reading

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Stitching people together

Story is how we stitch people together. :- Doug. Story is how we

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Bringing heart to law

In our times, we are bringing heart to law. :- Doug.

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Feeling old is optional

Feeling old is optional for you, elder of fuller life :- Doug.

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Now can we

All our lives preparing our homework for jobs for weddings for parenthood for a new career for company for dinner but now we are 60 or 70 or 80 but now is it finally Now now can we live now … Continue reading

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No, you said,

No, you said, and fought off tears —how dreaded the diagnosis But now I ask you be gentle with yourself say how—then say how again— you would like to see this ending :- Doug.

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business success can turn us

Our wanting can block & blur our richer selves business success can turn us from filling a world need to buying a new convertible a beautiful spouse & big parties with important people can keep us from seeing this little … Continue reading

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Quotation: the cords between people

Especially in this time of managed care, more emphasis seems to be placed upon medication and the quick amelioration of symptoms, short-term work and privatized, profit-making clinics, than upon the lovely and mysterious alchemy that comprises the cords between people, … Continue reading

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