Monthly Archives: May 2017

The chosen peril

Eldering is not all sweetness and light. It is not just a death either. It is choosing and leaving one behind or even beyond that, using the power of what could have been for the chosen peril. :- Doug.

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Underdeveloped humanity

The danger today is we have underdeveloped our humanity. This is a work of elders. :- Doug.

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Embracing incompleteness

Elders are about embracing the incompleteness of completeness :- Doug.

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Holding everything and looking for what’s missing

What is the spiritual tension of eldering? To what must I die today? The tension between being and powerlessness, among tension, relaxation, both, neither, outcomes, non-attachment Among respiration, inspiration, expiration, and the two still points in the betweens Among whole … Continue reading

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Recognizing and meeting

The elder recognizes within persons, community, and worlds a soul, and the elder goes out to meet it. :- Doug.

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You’re the one

Until a better elder comes along, I’m the one they’ve got. :- Doug.

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Difficult and a lifetime

Eldering is difficult to start, however it takes a lifetime to master. :- Doug.

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I bless you with challenges insurmountable

I bless you with challenges insurmountable death of ego and more at every turn no chance of safe return :- Doug.

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Skippingly work

Eldering is work, a different kind of work to be sure. It is work on yourself as much as on the world. It is losing yourself beyond grieving, beyond sacrifice, to skippingly chasing after it. It is finding a larger … Continue reading

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A meaning to eldering

There’s a meaning to eldering: What’s yours? :- Doug.

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Teach not: find

Teach not: find :- Doug.

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We will not survive

We will not survive the perils of living conversations along the way are the elder’s destination our leap into the source :- Doug.

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More I cannot say

More I cannot say says the teacher Elder teaches that which student already knows So too I stop :- Doug.

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Modern emigrants

“Right up to the last minute,” Joelle said to me “the soul has work to do” Weeks later her words lead me to ask What if it were more than disease this Alzheimer’s & these our tribe’s tired left behind … Continue reading

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Eldering is close

Eldering is close to the grandchildren close to the ancestors close to community the universes close to God :- Doug.

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mystical craft

Eldering can be mystical craft (living is) :- Doug.

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foul or fresh

Elders grow foul or fresh :- Doug.

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