Monthly Archives: July 2019

Long purpose for each

Converse around story construction before we get to our long purpose: here we start to discover for ourselves what that long purpose is, for us. :- Doug.

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Dilemma and subtext

So how do dilemma and subtext help elders tell their stories? They can say how what they did was not exactly in line with what they wanted. They can say how choices were difficult. They can discover these things in … Continue reading

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Community in eldering

Community in eldering might be spiritual. :- Doug.

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Don’t answer the tough questions

Don’t answer the tough questions. :- Doug.

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Growing perpetually in conflict

Just how do you grow a better humanity if to be alive is to perpetually be in conflict? :- Doug.

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To tell or hear?

Which is the more profound role for you as storyteller: To tell or to hear? :- Doug.

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Questions to own?

What questions do we want the generations to own? :- Doug.

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Your hero’s journey

Exercise: write your life’s story as hero’s journey with your choice now whether to share the boon. :- Doug.

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Share your boon?

Elders have lived the hero’s journey—left home—faced life’s challenges—returned: how will you share your boon? :- Doug.

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Soul age

Old lawyer does not refer to biologic age but to soul age, even spirit age. Long view. :- Doug.

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Tell stories better

I tell stories I write poems So you do better ones :- Doug.

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A skosh more compassion

Has human nature changed over the years? Is it just that our choices are similar across generations, and this gives us the illusion of no change? Or maybe our lack of historical perspective? We have built upon the landscape cities … Continue reading

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Choice furcations

The walls and floors of the house give space for closets and cabinets and shelves and offices and laboratories we would not have dreamt in a wide-open field. Our choices are furcations along the road, imagination constrained to be more … Continue reading

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Best mistakes

How do we make the best mistakes for our generations to come? :- Doug.

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Choose well for them

How do we choose well for the 300-year grandchild elders? :- Doug.

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Choice is rest

“I set before you life and death: choose life.” At death-time, the choice is rest. :- Doug.

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Choosing intentionally larger

One service we can do for the 300-year grandchild elders is to work on choosing intentionally. Find our past choices and make more intentional ones. Is this not the truer definition of an improved humanity? One which chooses intentionally well, … Continue reading

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